Helping Men Build Healthier, More Connected Lives
Across our region, some amazing charities are making a difference in the lives of men and boys. Acorn Foundation’s Jo Wilson takes a closer look at the work they’re doing and how it’s helping men and boys across our region feel supported, connected and less alone.
“We support a considerable number of charities working with men and boys at different stages of life and through varying levels of hardship,” Jo says. Jo shines a light on three initiatives doing valuable work that you may not have heard about.
Menz Sheds - Western Bay of Plenty
Menz Shedz offers older men a welcoming place to connect, learn and contribute. Menz Shed’s operating in Katikati, Omokoroa, and Mount Maunganui have been supported by Acorn donors over the years. “The concept is beautifully simple,” Jo says. “Men come together, get out of the house and build friendships.” No particular trade experience is needed. Members can share existing skills, learn new ones, make or repair household items, and complete practical projects for the wider community. They help in all sorts of practical ways, like repairing toys for toy libraries and improving playgrounds to building planter boxes for schools and community groups. “It’s a win-win. The men overcome isolation while using their skills to help others.”
Cedar Hub, based in Tauranga Moana, works with men who have used family violence. In partnership with police and local family-safety providers, it delivers both mandated and voluntary non-violence programmes.
Men attending voluntarily have recognised that something needs to change and are choosing to address their behaviour. Cedar Hub also offers a fathering programme that helps participants parent more positively and remove anger and violence from family life.
“The organisation works with appropriately small groups and achieves a very high success rate,” Jo says. “Its impact extends to partners, children and the wider whānau.”
Another initiative gaining momentum is Men Making Miles. By bringing men together through exercise and shared challenges, it creates a space for genuine connection and honest conversation.
The movement provides an outlet for energy and supports mental wellbeing, and, for many men, talking feels easier when they’re doing something alongside others. Fortnightly kōrero at a Brookfield barbershop offer another safe space for the men to open up and share their experiences.
Newcomers can start by simply listening and realising they’re not alone. Over time, friendships grow, and men can find their way to further support when they’re ready.
Acorn is proud to support organisations making a difference in the lives of men, boys and teenagers across our region. “When you support one person, the benefits reach far beyond that individual,” Jo says.
“You also strengthen their friends, family and whānau. Through Acorn, donors can direct their giving to areas of genuine need, including important causes that do not always receive widespread recognition.” shared Jo.